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Post by Glitch on Apr 28, 2018 4:58:11 GMT -5
What about you? I think transparency is the key as long as everyone is mature enough. Have you ever gone up to her one-on-one asking "why are you being a little shit to me all the time? I never did anything to you". She is likely to keep doing it if she feels that you don't say anything. I don't know what sorta person you are but sometimes having a snarky response is also a pretty good way to shut someone up because nobody likes being humiliated, so she'd stop at some point. yes! I agree with this. no one likes embarrassment especially in front of their peers. she might just stop doing what she's doing. you could also become her best friend, Ive had friends do this with their enemies just so they can hang out with their friends peacefully. I use to live in a very small town too and understand how hard it can be to see someone everyday thats so menacing towards you. Tbh, the last suggestion feels like trickery to me. I’d advise to stand up, be more mature than the other party (which doesn’t seem to hard in this case) and straight up confront her with her actions. Give a good argument to why she’s a pain in the ass to you and if she doesn’t follow suit, you at least tried and worded your feelings about it. No person deserves to be treated like she does to you and people who side with her definitely don’t deserve your attention. Try to cut the intoxicating people out of your life. Not literally, please.
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Post by Calvinball on Aug 11, 2018 16:40:18 GMT -5
Well marshers I need some fucking guidance here, I'm fucking pissed. Recently I moved into a new apartment with a view literally overlooking a small lake. Today while doing some cleaning I discovered I have mold, it is growing on things in the corners and in the places of your life that you never really look. It's all over my favorite leather jacket, a comforter, my sentimental boy scout walking stick, my couch, and more. I'm going up to leasing on Monday to see what I can do, but I'm kind of confused and lost as this is a new situation for me.
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Post by chocollama on Aug 11, 2018 17:53:46 GMT -5
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Post by essien on Aug 11, 2018 18:41:24 GMT -5
Well marshers I need some fucking guidance here, I'm fucking pissed. Recently I moved into a new apartment with a view literally overlooking a small lake. Today while doing some cleaning I discovered I have mold, it is growing on things in the corners and in the places of your life that you never really look. It's all over my favorite leather jacket, a comforter, my sentimental boy scout walking stick, my couch, and more. I'm going up to leasing on Monday to see what I can do, but I'm kind of confused and lost as this is a new situation for me. Sounds like a dehumidifier might be a good investment.
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Post by clazza on Aug 11, 2018 18:43:32 GMT -5
Yep cleaning the shit out of every thing is the first thing you need to do. Then you need to make sure you're place gets lots of fresh air circulating around as much as you can. However depending on what humidity is like where you are this could be an ongoing issue. My cousin lives in Thailand and they have to deal with mould forming on their clothes and what have you.
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Post by Calvinball on Aug 11, 2018 22:06:07 GMT -5
Thanks for the replies people, I really do appreciate it. I've calmed down, I'm going to try to get my apartment to transfer my lease to a new unit on the grounds that my basement level/next to a lake apt is a great breeding place for mold. Even if they compensate me for my damages I need to get out of here before this happens again.
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Post by clazza on Aug 11, 2018 22:39:50 GMT -5
Thanks for the replies people, I really do appreciate it. I've calmed down, I'm going to try to get my apartment to transfer my lease to a new unit on the grounds that my basement level/next to a lake apt is a great breeding place for mold. Even if they compensate me for my damages I need to get out of here before this happens again. Good move
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